“To the degree that we accept that through Christ we ourselves have been reconciled with God we can be messengers of reconciliation for others. Essential to the work of reconciliation is a nonjudgmental presence. We are not sent to the world to judge, to condemn, to evaluate, to classify, or to label. When we walk around as if we have to make up our mind about people and tell them what is wrong with them and how they should change, we will only create more division. Jesus says it clearly: ‘Be compassionate just as your Father is compassionate. Do not judge; … do not condemn; … forgive’ (Luke 6:36-37). In a world that constantly asks us to make up our minds about other people, a nonjudgmental presence seems nearly impossible. But it is one of the most beautiful fruits of a deep spiritual life and will be easily recognized by those who long for reconciliation.” Henri Nouwen
“Those of my university students who have grown up outside of the church (about half of them) have a very negative stereotypical view of Christianity. When I ask them to write a short essay on their impression of Christianity, they consistently use five adjectives: Christians are literalistic, anti-intellectual, self-righteous, judgmental, and bigoted.” Marcus Borg
“Owe nothing to anyone—except for your obligation to love one another.
If you love your neighbor, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law.”
- How often do you judge, condemn, evaluate, classify or label someone? …even someone you don’t really know?
- When you catch yourself, do you beat yourself up? Can you just stop? Can you take another look and practice compassion–or attempt some understanding?
- Can you make up your mind once and for all to see others as God does–with compassion, forgiveness and grace? …to see them as bearing God’s image? …as someone God loves? …as someone God is for? …as a confused person in need of a Savior? …as a broken person in need of a friend? …as someone like you?
- Do you ever look at people (like while waiting in the doctor’s office) and just let your heart go out to them in love? Try it!
Abba, remind me daily that I’ve made up my mind to look upon others only with love. May your love for me spill over to others.
For More: Bread for the Journey by Henry Nouwen
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“I practice daily what I believe; everything else is religious talk.”
i find much I can agree with. Glad I found you as a friend of Henri Nouwen who discovered how to love in L’Arche; to see Christ in each person and to love them with His compassion too. I ask God daily to make me more compassionate and understanding. as Paul says, ‘in Christ I am a new creation, the old has gone.’ we are blessed to be children of God and be able to call him”Abba.”