“We are each loved by God
in a particular and incomparable way,
as in the case of
a bride and bridegroom.”
“Divine intimacy is always and precisely particular and made to order–and thus ‘intimate.’ …But which comes first? Does feeling safe and held by God allow you to deal with others in the same way? Or does human tenderness allow you to imagine that God must be the same, but infinitely so? I do not suppose it really matters where you start; the important thing is that you get in on the big secret from one side or the other. Yes, ‘secret,’ or even ‘hidden secret,’ is what writers like the Psalmist (25:14), Paul, Rumi, Hafiz, Bonaventure, Lady Julian, and many mystics called it. And for some sad reason, it seems to be a well-kept secret. Jesus praises God for ‘hiding these things from the learned and the clever and revealing them only to the little ones’ (Matthew 11:25). Well, what is it that the learned and the clever often cannot see? The big and hidden secret is this: an infinite God seeks and desires intimacy with the human soul. Once you experience such intimacy, only the intimate language of lovers describes what is going on for you: mystery, tenderness, singularity, specialness, changing the rules ‘for me,’ nakedness, risk, ecstasy, incessant longing, and of course also, necessary suffering. This is the mystical vocabulary of the saints.”
“Vainly we offer each ample oblation,
Vainly with gifts would His favor secure;
Richer by far is the heart’s adoration,
Dearer to God are the prayers of the poor.”
“Epiphany” by Reginald Heber
- Does feeling “safe and held by God” make you want to deal with others so they feel the same way?
- Does human tenderness at its best allow you to imagine God’s tenderness towards you, but “infinitely so?”
- Is the “language of lovers” the best way to characterize your relationship with God, or have you settled for/experienced only something less? Instead of as God’s beloved, would you describe yourself as a hard-working servant? a skillful apologist? a diligent rule-keeper?
Abba, more than anything, let me lean into your intimate love for me.
For More: Eager to Love: The Alternative Way of Francis of Assisi by Richard Rohr
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“I practice daily what I believe; everything else is religious talk.”